Saturday, August 22, 2020

Monticello: Visiting the "Little Mountain"

Collonaded front entrance of Thomas Jefferson's mansion

One day of our family vacation by the lake, My Awesome Parents (MAP), Dear Husband, and I drove an hour from Lake Anna to Thomas Jefferson's estate, Monticello. I complained the whole way there that I was cold, and from the photo above you can still tell that the weather was initially grey and drizzly. However, by the time we had toured the mansion, the temperature had come up and the sun had come out, which is why so many of my photos ended up over-exposed and/or back-lit.

View from the front porch of the valley below

This is the view from the top of the "Little Mountain." I was impressed by the precautions taken to allow the historical site to re-open, including limiting the number of tickets and people allowed on the shuttle or inside the house. Masks were required, of course. Instead of guided tours, staff met visitors outside for short scheduled talks, and photographs inside are permitted for the first time. The only real disappointment was that we brought our own food for lunch, but the picnic area in the woods is closed, so instead of eating away from other people, we had to eat in the courtyard of the visitor center.

Wall display of Native American artifacts

These are reproductions of objects sent to Jefferson. Apparently there are also dual busts of him and Alexander Hamilton in the foyer, perpetually staring each other down, but I missed them.

A woman looks at portraits hung over curtained windows in a parlor

Small study with late-18th and early-19th-century furniture

Above is his study, with a contraption on the table to write two copies of a letter simultaneously. To the right is the alcove where Jefferson slept, presumably after his wife died. Very efficient. Below are his copies of Don Quixote and a rotating clothes rack.

Man points to old books on a shelfClothes hang on spokes from a rotating wooden rack

View of the garden through a window

White fireplace in a room with yellow walls
Dear Husband was particularly excited about this feature of the dining room he learned about in school: the wine "dumbwaiters" hidden on either side of the fireplace mantle.

Below is the tea room. Only the first floor of the mansion is open to visitors. After seeing it, we were just in time to grab seats under a tent on the lawn to hear a actor portraying the President give a little monologue and answer questions. He talked a lot about suffrage and leaned rather heavily on the idea that Jefferson would have expected society and laws to change over time to express support for the expansion of voting (e.g. to women, as the nation had just marked the anniversary of the 19th amendment). I thought it was a rather too-rosy feel-good retrospective interpretation of a man who pushed for religious freedom in Virginia but owned >600 human beings over the course of his life, including the mother of 6 of his 12 children, Sally Hemmings, who was half-sister to his wife, Martha. I learned that Sally accompanied him to Paris at the age of 14, was pregnant upon her return at 16, and negotiated freedom for her children...which was granted to the 4 who were still alive after Jefferson died on July 4, 1826. (The same day as John Adams.)
Small room set up for tea on china

Brick exterior of the building

A man and woman stand near an actor dressed as Thomas Jefferson

A large brick mansion and an expanse of green grass

Above is the side of the building that Jefferson designed that you might recognize from the nickel. Below is a reconstruction of a slave cabin on Mulberry Row, with a view of the working garden the on-site cafe uses, and the valley beyond. There is also a memorial to the Jewish family who bought the estate after Jefferson died--$100,000 in debt for living beyond his means--and preserved much of it for posterity.

A small log cabin overlooking a vegetable garden

Black and white photo of a fancy black wrought-iron gate in front of a marble obeliskWhite hydrangeas near old tombstones

To the left is the ornate gate in front of Jefferson's obelisk, to the right, a view into the private family cemetery. Below are my favorite gravestones, which read "A perfect gentleman" and "A talented lady" on their back sides. Below that is the slave graveyard. More than 40 graves have been identified by careful digging, but none have been opened. Jefferson's family freed Sally Hemmings, and she lived the rest of her life in Charlottesville, but no one knows where she was buried.

Two gravestones read "A perfect gentleman" and "A talented lady"

Many trees shade a fenced-in enclosure

A man stands back-to-back with a metal statue of Thomas JeffersonA dark, windowless room with a brick floor

To the left, DH sees how he measures up against Jefferson's 6' 2.5" stature. On the right, one of the two rooms historians think Sally Hemmings occupied with their children. It was a good trip, and I'm glad we went, but it does make you think where our priorities as a nation have been if schoolchildren have been taught about the architectural features of a Big House rather than the true nature of chattel slavery and the real reasons behind the Civil War. Hopefully with every generation we are doing a better job of handling our past.

Thursday, August 20, 2020

Lake Anna Excursions

Man smiles across a picnic table with boxes of food and little cups of ciderImage shows a fishing pole, wooden dock, and a lake vista

While on our family vacation to Lake Anna, we took a couple of excursions.

Left: One evening we went to a local cider manufacturer with a BBQ joint attached. They had tables set up outside for distanced eating, drinking, and trivia. We called ourselves "The Magnificent Six" and finished solidly in the middle of the pack. Here you can see my BBQ mac n cheese and a flight of 9 ciders. I eventually invested in two four packs that will take us all winter to finish. 

Right: Fishing off the dock. I didn't catch anything, but everybody else did. In fact, Mom caught a catfish big enough to eat the last night we were there, but since we already had more than enough food, we didn't ask Dad to clean it.

Woman holds a net with a large catfish in it

Below: One day we played miniature golf. The course was very good, not too crowded, although you can see that the skies were threatening. Not pictured: N's girlfriend, C.

A family smiles on a miniature golf course under cloudy gray skies

Over the week I read 2.5 books: I finished reading the book Dear Husband had given me for my birthday: Michelle Harper, The Beauty in Breaking, a memoir by an African-American ER physician, which I leant to C. I read from cover to cover the book that N. had given me for Christmas, Thomas Harding, The House by the Lake. It is a biography of his family's lake house outside Berlin and the families who owned or lived in it over 100+ years of German history. It was an easy read, and I could imagine assigning it in an undergraduate course. Finally, in the car on the way home, I read Melany Jackson, More Than Enough, a memoir about her calling to start a homeless ministry in Illinois. I can't remember the last time I had the freedom to do so much reading; it reminded me of the binge I went on in undergrad after finishing my thesis. The whole trip was good for my soul.

Tuesday, August 18, 2020

Family by the Lake

A man and a woman sit in a car, grinning

Dr. and Dr. Cheesy recently took a vacation to a lake house in northern Virginia. It was, needless to say, not the big, boisterous get-together that had originally been planned pre-pandemic. But we were able to spend some quality time with a few members of my family.

A car back seat is full of bags, coolers, and foodOur departure was delayed by two days because I had to reschedule one of my board exams (thanks, COVID). Eventually we packed the car with all the food we would need while driving and at the house (and then some); sheets, towels, pillows, blankets; games and books; and anything else you might want at a lake, before heading off with extra masks and several downloaded podcasts about an old Sherlock Holmes TV series. Our next door neighbor kindly agreed to feed Rosamunda, whom she saw ever so briefly the very last night before we got home.A car trunk is full of bags and camping chairs

Handsome wooden house with a covered veranda and large attached garage

My father had found a large rental home that sleeps 10, with a variety of en suite-bedrooms, a pool table, screened/covered/open porches, and access to a backwater creek feeding into Lake Anna. Lake Anna was created when the Virginia Electric and Power Company (now Dominion) dammed up the North Anna River to create a cooling pond for a nuclear power plant in 1972. Fun fact: they thought it would take 3 years to fill the lake, but thanks to Hurricane Agnes, it only took 18 months! Lake Anna is now a very popular recreational spot, though I regret to inform you that we missed the Rumpus in Bumpass, the annual spring triathlon in a nearby town.

Fishing spot on a quiet creek next to a covered boat launch



Instead, we swam and fished off the nearby docks; played a lot of games; made ginormous bubbles; watched Hamilton on Disney+; lay in the hammock; swam and hiked in the nearby state park; walked the dog; and put together and started to color a jigsaw puzzle. The week started off sunny and hot, then got progressively wetter. The rain showers mostly happened overnight, except for the brief one that produced this rainbow over the little island in the lake that we paddled around on our pool noodles. There wasn't too much boat traffic in this part, and the partying college kids mostly kept it down. Alas, s'mores didn't happen this trip.
People play a card game at a glass table on a back deck overlooking a grassy yard

We ate like kings and queens. For instance, N. and C. brought taco fixings and a charcuterie board. The two meals Dear Husband and I prepared were veggie pizza (like last summer) with watermelon, and the black bean burgers with blue cheese crumbles that I recently mastered. Except that I forgot Pioneer Woman makes massive patties, so when I doubled the recipe, we ended up with 14 burgers instead of the 6 we needed! We also grilled corn on the cob via a clever method I learned from my other brother that doesn't involve laboriously picking off the floss.

Two soft tacos

Too bad the "after" picture is blurry, but I think it gives you a good sense of how tricky the puzzle was to assemble when it was just black lines on a white background, and what fun it was color all the wildlife. Aunt B. and Cousin J. can put it back together and finish coloring it.

A black and white jigsaw puzzle with an elephant colored on it

A jigsaw puzzle of a colorful jungle scene

We also took a couple of carefully planned excursions, including to Monticello.

Friday, August 14, 2020

Oh, The Places I've Been!

A woman holds a framed poster with the shapes of states decorated by stickers


“Things may happen and often do to people as brainy and footsy as you”― Dr. Seuss, Oh, the Places You'll Go!

How many of us received Dr. Seuss's Oh, The Places You'll Go! as a graduation gift? I got mine after high school, I think. For graduation from residency, My Awesome Parents (MAP) gifted me a piece of personalized artwork with each state in which I got my education: Maryland (K-12), Missouri (BA), Illinois (MD PhD), and Pennsylvania (residency). Each state is made of words about the state written in a different primary color. So Maryland has crabs, Missouri has the Ozarks, Illinois has deep dish pizza, and Pennsylvania has the Liberty Bell. When I opened, I knew exactly what I wanted to do to personalize it further. I hopped on RedBubble and found transparent stickers with objects associated with each state. I actually ordered more than would fit so that I would have options; the leftovers will probably end up on travel mugs (then maybe I won't lose them as easily!). Below you can see the work in progress. For Maryland, a black-eyed Susan with the Maryland flag at the center and a crab with the state glad didn't make the cut; I chose the Old Bay spice box from McCormick's and a fancy, mosaic blue crab. I thought about fried ravioli or the Washington University in St. Louis seal but settled on the facade of Brookings Building (looks like a castle) and the silhouettes of two lindyhoppers. For Illinois, I left off the Block I for the University of Illinois in favor of the Alma Mater statue; and I put a painting of Louis Armstrong up in Lake Michigan for Chicago and the blues. And for Pennsylvania, I put a golden Cathedral of Learning for the University of Pittsburgh at the center and made the difficult decision to leave off the Mr. Rogers trolley in favor of the Duquesne incline, for reasons of space. Oh! And I ordered a "Made in Texas" QPC code, for obvious reasons. I was momentarily stymied when I discovered it was *exactly* the same size as the frame I picked up at Michael's, but a few trims with scissors cut it down to fit nicely. I'll hang the finished product either in our bedroom or, when I get one, my office.

Thursday, August 6, 2020

Happy 15th Wedding Anniversary!

Today Dear Husband and I celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary. This year there was no trip, no theater performance, not even a fancy dinner from our favorite restaurant, Altius, which is not even offering take-out right now (thanks, COVID). We did the best we could to celebrate together anyway: DH wore a button-down shirt to pick up salad, steak, and scallops from Paris 66 Bistro; and I set the table with our best china. He picked out smooth tunes from Dave Brubeck, while I dialed up "restaurant background noise" on YouTube. He lit our unity candle, while I pulled out our wedding photo album.


The food was as good as could be expected for having been cooked and brought home. The company was the best! We enjoyed looking through the photos; too bad the honeymoon album is still in a box somewhere. We even danced in the dining room while waiting for the ice cream cake to soften enough to cut. We ate it off the hand-painted plates I purchased on sale in Meissen, which I only just realized depict the Chinese Zodiac. Although we are a Pig and a Dog, we somehow ended up with a Monkey and a Rat. Oh well. I'm still hoping we can take a second honeymoon to the Greek isles...maybe next year. 

Thank you to everyone who helped two "kids" have a special wedding 15 years ago. Many couples aren't so lucky this year, but hopefully they will find truth in the adage that a wedding is only the first day of the rest of your lives together. Oh, the adventures we're having:

"I, Frau Doktor Doctor, take you, Dear Husband, to be my husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death do us part. In the presence of God, our family and friends, I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to journey with you wherever life’s adventures may take us, for as long as we both shall live."